What Makes a Real Parent?

A mother holds her child and smiles, showing how to be a good parent.

Families come in all different shapes and sizes, and that’s what makes them all so beautiful and unique. There are blended families, adoptive families, and biological families, and each kind is valuable and important. 

Becoming a parent is a pivotal, selfless moment in a person’s life. It’s irrelevant whether the child is yours biologically, through adoption, as a step-parent, or you’re their grandparent or legal guardian.

Making the responsible, life-changing decision to become a parent and committing to raising a child makes you a real one. By providing a child with love, care, support, and guidance, you put someone else above yourself and your needs.

When raising children, parents provide love, encouragement, and so much more. They are teachers, secret keepers, counselors, cheerleaders, role models, protectors, and more. 

When it really boils down to it, being a parent is all about being a consistent source of love, support, and safety for a child. 

Whether the child you care for is yours biologically, through marriage, adoption, or someone you care for by choice, it doesn’t matter. Caring for a child and putting their needs before your own makes you a real parent, without a doubt.

So many parents in this world don’t get the credit they deserve. 

From step-parents helping to raise someone else’s biological kids to grandparents who step in when the children need them, anyone who makes it their mission to ensure a child has a better life is as real as it gets.

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The Home Pillar

Home is your oasis. I want you to Imagine a beautiful sanctuary. Now why is it important to bring meaning, intention and purpose into this sanctuary? Because this is the energy you’re creating for where you live.

The Body Pillar

The body pillar is the mastery of your health. Imagine your body is your life’s car, allowing you to go from point a to point b. When it is mastered, and operating at its peak performance, we are able to dive into a wealthier existence.

The Mind Pillar

One of the most special, unique pillars of our system. The way our mind thinks actually creates our reality. If we’re thinking positive thoughts all day, the energy we put out into the world will also be positive.

The Kindness Pillar

So many times in our society we hear “be kind”. But if we don’t actually move into the experience, we don’t have an understanding of how kindness feels, how our hearts react to it, and what the actual energy of kindness is.

The Courage Pillar

Be brave. Embolden yourself with personal power to forge ahead and step into those uncomfortable spaces.

The Responsibility Pillar

Responsibility is the core essence of who we are as humans. Teaching our children to be responsible individuals and have radical awareness for the life is the path to greatness

The Peacetime Pillar

Peacetime is all about social, emotional intelligence within yourself. Learn when you need to be still, reflect and recalibrate with tools to release your emotions.

The Mother Earth Pillar

In our culture, we are not taught to connect with the planet. The earth we live in is connected to all of us. It electrifies us. We need the planet and the planet needs us.

The Home Pillar

Home is your oasis. I want you to Imagine a beautiful sanctuary. Now why is it important to bring meaning, intention and purpose into this sanctuary? Because this is the energy you’re creating for where you live.

The Body Pillar

The body pillar is the mastery of your health. Imagine your body is your life’s car, allowing you to go from point a to point b. When it is mastered, and operating at its peak performance, we are able to dive into a wealthier existence.

…or preview this pillar

The Mind Pillar

One of the most special, unique pillars of our system. The way our mind thinks actually creates our reality. If we’re thinking positive thoughts all day, the energy we put out into the world will also be positive.

…or preview this pillar

The Kindness Pillar

So many times in our society we hear “be kind”. But if we don’t actually move into the experience, we don’t have an understanding of how kindness feels, how our hearts react to it, and what the actual energy of kindness is.

…or preview this pillar

The Home Pillar

Home is your oasis. I want you to Imagine a beautiful sanctuary. Now why is it important to bring meaning, intention and purpose into this sanctuary? Because this is the energy you’re creating for where you live.

The Body Pillar

The body pillar is the mastery of your health. Imagine your body is your life’s car, allowing you to go from point a to point b. When it is mastered, and operating at its peak performance, we are able to dive into a wealthier existence.

…or preview this pillar

The Mind Pillar

One of the most special, unique pillars of our system. The way our mind thinks actually creates our reality. If we’re thinking positive thoughts all day, the energy we put out into the world will also be positive.

…or preview this pillar

The Kindness Pillar

So many times in our society we hear “be kind”. But if we don’t actually move into the experience, we don’t have an understanding of how kindness feels, how our hearts react to it, and what the actual energy of kindness is.

…or preview this pillar

The Home Pillar

Home is your oasis. I want you to Imagine a beautiful sanctuary. Now why is it important to bring meaning, intention and purpose into this sanctuary? Because this is the energy you’re creating for where you live.

The Body Pillar

The body pillar is the mastery of your health. Imagine your body is your life’s car, allowing you to go from point a to point b. When it is mastered, and operating at its peak performance, we are able to dive into a wealthier existence.

…or preview this pillar

The Mind Pillar

One of the most special, unique pillars of our system. The way our mind thinks actually creates our reality. If we’re thinking positive thoughts all day, the energy we put out into the world will also be positive.

…or preview this pillar

The Kindness Pillar

So many times in our society we hear “be kind”. But if we don’t actually move into the experience, we don’t have an understanding of how kindness feels, how our hearts react to it, and what the actual energy of kindness is.

…or preview this pillar

The Responsibility Pillar

Responsibility is the core essence of who we are as humans. Teaching our children to be responsible individuals and have radical awareness for the life is the path to greatness

…or preview this pillar

The Courage Pillar

Be brave. Embolden yourself with personal power to forge ahead and step into those uncomfortable spaces.

…or preview this pillar

The Peacetime Pillar

Peacetime is all about social, emotional intelligence within yourself. Learn when you need to be still, reflect and recalibrate with tools to release your emotions.

…or preview this pillar

The Mother Earth Pillar

In our culture, we are not taught to connect with the planet. The earth we live in is connected to all of us. It electrifies us. We need the planet and the planet needs us.

…or preview this pillar

Who is Lauren Magers?

Lauren is a firecracker of a human. Her electric energy and passion have driven her to live life boldly and courageously. She’s one of those “there’s always a way,” people. Whether it’s playing collegiate soccer, building a business or raising four kids, her desire for greatness has led her to putting her heart and soul into everything that she does. Truly, no matter what she faces, she finds a solution with a smile on her face, even through the occasional tears.

When she became a mother to four children, she asked herself, “How can I raise a strong, empowered, and resilient being that can go out into today’s world and be a happy adult?”

This created a ripple effect of questions in her mind: What are the tools, what are the skills, and what’s the foundation I need to raise happy children and be a happy parent at the same time?

She focused all her attention on this quest and spent over 15 years and 15,000 hours researching, discovering tools, and inventing practices. Through extensive testing and a lot of trial and error and mistakes, she unlocked the truth that mastering your life and being a happy person starts from the inside. 

She began to imagine the beautiful possibilities a child could create if they had a system internally empowering them from the beginning of their life. This was the ah-ha moment and the springboard that led her to create an entire system for a human to take ownership and control of the success in their life.

After she experienced the extraordinary outcomes of this system in her own life, she realized the greatest gift she could give would be to share this system with humanity. 

It is now her life’s mission to touch as many people as she can with the Happy Life System.  

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