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Temper Tantrums

Your toddler is crying, screaming, and refusing to listen to what you have to say. Maybe they’ve decided to lie on the floor. These behaviors and more are all too familiar to parents dealing with temper tantrums. How a parent reacts is important to handling and solving a child’s emotional outbursts. But without the right tools to do so, you may find it difficult to adapt your response. Here’s what to know about temper tantrums and how the Happy Life System can help you address them!

What are Temper Tantrums?

Lashing out, meltdowns, fits – there are many names that you can use to describe your child’s temper tantrums. Regardless of what you call it, these emotional outbursts can be stressful to handle and confusing to find a solution for.

Without the right tools, parents can become easily exhausted within minutes and feel defeated when their efforts to calm their children don’t pay off. In some cases, it may even make it difficult for a parent to hold their ground – worried about causing a scene.

So, how do you address your child’s needs without feeling exhausted? How do you make sure that your child feels heard and supported during difficult times? First, you have to understand why temper tantrums happen.

Why is My Child Having a Temper Tantrum?

There are many reasons why children have temper tantrums. So, to understand how to address temper tantrums, you have to first consider why they’re happening. Consider questions like:

  • Do they feel inadequate?
  • Are they being ignored?
  • Do they have the confidence and tools to express themselves in other ways?
  • Do they feel loved and accepted?

Once you understand the reason, you’ll be able to adjust your response so that your child feels more understood and empowered to communicate!

Solving Toddler Temper Tantrums with the Happy Life System

Don’t know how to pinpoint the reasons for these toddler temper tantrums? Are you struggling with how to respond, or are you lacking the tools to address the problem? To truly connect with your child and understand why they’re having a tantrum, try the following steps:

  • Listen and reflect. Considering the triggers that are listed above, the solution to a tantrum can be as easy as listening and affirming your child’s feelings.
  • Offer other tools of communication so they have other ways to express themselves.
  • Lead by example. It’s not enough to tell your toddler how to act – you have to show them as well. With patience and good communication, your child will follow your lead.

Remember, this is what we’re here for! The Happy Life System’s program offers parents the space and resources to expand their horizons on parenting. We know you’re trying your best and want to connect with your child during trying times – we’re here to help you achieve that goal.

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What Else Do We Help With?

The Happy Life System also addresses underlying issues that can appear in tantrums like:

  • Anger and aggression
  • Bullying
  • Communication skills

With our program, you’ll be one step closer to raising a capable and upstanding adult! The Happy Life System also gives parents tools for other difficulties like:

  • Disrespectful behavior
  • Child rearing
  • Single parenting
  • Building a happy family
  • Disobedience
  • Child development
  • Saying “no”

Whether you’re a single parent, in a partnership, or receiving help from a supportive village – we know how exhausting and discouraging tantrums and other child behaviors can be! With our support and guidance, you’ll feel confident in addressing your child’s needs and helping them address their problems without feeling stuck and disconnected.

Learn More with the Happy Life System

Are you feeling stuck? Want to help your child grow and develop into their best selves but don’t know how? Do you need advice on a better structure for life as a family and parent?

The Happy Life System is here to help! Our goal is to give all parents a shame-free, safe space to find advice and feel better about their efforts in raising their children.

We know you’re trying your best, and we’re here to give you more tools to reach your goal as a parent. Contact us today to learn more about our program and to start your journey to a happier life!

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The body pillar is the mastery of your health. Imagine your body is your life’s car, allowing you to go from point a to point b. When it is mastered, and operating at its peak performance, we are able to dive into a wealthier existence.

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The Mind Pillar

One of the most special, unique pillars of our system. The way our mind thinks actually creates our reality. If we’re thinking positive thoughts all day, the energy we put out into the world will also be positive.

…or preview this pillar

The Kindness Pillar

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…or preview this pillar

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Home is your oasis. I want you to Imagine a beautiful sanctuary. Now why is it important to bring meaning, intention and purpose into this sanctuary? Because this is the energy you’re creating for where you live.

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…or preview this pillar

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…or preview this pillar

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