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Children and Family

At the core of human development is the nuclear base. Our home life shapes us in foundational ways that remain with us all throughout adulthood. You know the saying, “Happy wife, happy life.” Well, whatever your family home life looks like, the happiness of the parents makes all the difference.

Whether you’re a single mom, co-parenting, living a busy life, or stay-at-home, you lead the way. It’s the parent’s ability to transmit joy, safety, and connection in the home that creates children with strong backs and soft chests. The Happy Life System teaches revolutionary keycodes for children and families to create healthy fundamentals together as a team.

Children and Families Are Meant to Be a Team

We’ve come a long way in our modern advances; however, our progressive era has caused some setbacks to family life. Whereas in the past, families did everything together, today, we see a culture of hyper-individualism. Mom cannot do everything alone. She needs her family to work alongside her in the home.

Families can benefit greatly from an attitude of togetherness that doesn’t compromise each person’s individuality. Creating a strong home where children actually want to help you in the kitchen is what we’re talking about here. Changing your energy from overwhelmed and stressed disciplining to empowered and excited parenting is made possible with the right guidance.

Family and Children Thrive Within the Home Pillar

The Home Pillar implements four key fundamentals of a strong home: cleanliness, orderliness, care, and improvement. Let’s dive deep to give you a full picture and a greater understanding of solutions you can begin to implement in your home.

Explore Our 8 Foundational Pillars

Love, joy and empowerment lie ahead. Our foundational pillars will guide you to building a bright, successful future.

Cleanliness Isn’t Just About Cleaning Up Dust

In the Home Pillar, getting your kids to clean isn’t really about cleaning up the dust. If getting your children to implement cleanliness is thought of as just cleaning up the house, then chances are it’ll feel like a demanding chore. And the more you fight with your kids and force them to do something they don’t want to do, the more disharmony is created. Who wants a disharmonious home? No one!

Many moms feel stuck in their disciplining techniques. They end up implementing too much force or taking on too much themselves. Both lead to exhaustion. Both want a clean home. But why is cleanliness so important?

Think about it. How do you feel when you walk into your kitchen with piles of dishes racked up? It’s probably a yucky and contracting feeling in the body. Now, how do you feel when you walk into a kitchen with no dishes in the sink? You feel different. You feel peaceful. There’s space to create yummy, nourishing meals.

Many leading psychologists, trauma-healing specialists, and spiritual teachers say the same thing. If you want to change the world, begin by making your bed in the morning. Cleanliness is a way for you to honor the house that supports you. By attaching this meaning to the way we go about implementing cleanliness in our home lives, we begin to reframe our children’s mindsets.

Mindset Shift to Help Our Family Feel Liberated

Everything begins in the mind. The energy behind our words and actions originates from what we believe about a situation. Therefore, the initial changes begin inside of us, and from there, we create external shifts. If we want to live our lives with meaning, in a joyous state, we have to find joy in everything we do.

Mindset shift: cleanliness is part of the habits, skills, and responsibilities of everyday life. When done with love and attention to maintain that feeling of peace and joy, your kids will naturally want to help keep the peace. Let’s recap why cleanliness is so important.

Why is Cleanliness Important?

Simple, because it makes us feel good! We feel energized and renewed. When shoes are scattered, it makes us feel bothered. So, how to translate this to your children?

Children Understand Love and Intention

If your intention behind cleaning the home is to create a welcoming and nourishing environment of safety, security, and love, you can’t get it wrong. But how to translate this to your child?

Practical Solutions

Turn it into a game! The Happy Life System is all about bringing play, creativity, and imagination wherever we are in our lives. You can gather your family and say something like, “We are now the clean managers of our home. Our home can feel our love and care. The home can feel everything. It smiles at us. Everything is made up of energy. We are going to clean our home today. I’m going to set the buzzer for 2 minutes, you’re on the broom, I’m on the dishes. Let’s do this together. Ready, set, go!”

The mindset shift involves teaching your child that they are ins service to support the home. Now you can have everyone in your family become a team that goes from “I have to do this thing…” to “I get to do it playfully.” The cleanliness of your home is all about you bringing value and meaning to the experience. How will your child feel different with this reframe?

Another thing you can do to get everyone on board is to have a team meeting and be vulnerable. Say something like, “Hey, listen, kids, I’ve used this tactic of pushing and forcing you to do things you don’t want to do. I may have been doing things wrong. I just want a clean home. I want to feel good in our environment. So here’s a new pivot for us. I want to gamify our home/I want our home to come alive. I’m gonna set a buzzer for 10mins. Let’s find as many opportunities and celebrate together afterward.”

Everything is about teamwork and building tribal connections, so you’re all on the same page. Come in as the cheerleader and life coach for your team.

When you turn music on and enjoy cleaning, it shows your care. Think about it. Walls give us safety, so when you clean, you move into a state of leadership and care for everything in your space. You can teach your children to serve you as they would their best friends. Creating a sanctuary oasis is vital to feeling better for an upgraded, energetic field.

The Happy Life System

Having a system allows your family to upgrade their lives so that we can clean with love and purpose. Putting things away is about being of service to order. As you’ve probably discovered by now, I am passionate about improving the life of mom, dad, son, daughter, and everyone in the household.

Strong foundations are born from positive attitudes that bring about profound shifts in the energy of everyone. Then, children grow up with clear instructions and firm roots to go out into the world as their empowered selves. All thanks to the systems you created at home!

Yes! You can master

Children and Family

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Children and Families Are Meant to Be a Team

Family and Children Thrive Within the Home Pillar

Explore Our 8 Foundational Pillars

Cleanliness Isn’t Just About Cleaning Up Dust

Mindset Shift to Help Our Family Feel Liberated

Why is Cleanliness Important?

Children Understand Love and Intention

Practical Solutions

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The Home Pillar

Home is your oasis. I want you to Imagine a beautiful sanctuary. Now why is it important to bring meaning, intention and purpose into this sanctuary? Because this is the energy you’re creating for where you live.

The Body Pillar

The body pillar is the mastery of your health. Imagine your body is your life’s car, allowing you to go from point a to point b. When it is mastered, and operating at its peak performance, we are able to dive into a wealthier existence.

…or preview this pillar

The Mind Pillar

One of the most special, unique pillars of our system. The way our mind thinks actually creates our reality. If we’re thinking positive thoughts all day, the energy we put out into the world will also be positive.

…or preview this pillar

The Kindness Pillar

So many times in our society we hear “be kind”. But if we don’t actually move into the experience, we don’t have an understanding of how kindness feels, how our hearts react to it, and what the actual energy of kindness is.

…or preview this pillar

The Home Pillar

Home is your oasis. I want you to Imagine a beautiful sanctuary. Now why is it important to bring meaning, intention and purpose into this sanctuary? Because this is the energy you’re creating for where you live.

The Body Pillar

The body pillar is the mastery of your health. Imagine your body is your life’s car, allowing you to go from point a to point b. When it is mastered, and operating at its peak performance, we are able to dive into a wealthier existence.

…or preview this pillar

The Mind Pillar

One of the most special, unique pillars of our system. The way our mind thinks actually creates our reality. If we’re thinking positive thoughts all day, the energy we put out into the world will also be positive.

…or preview this pillar

The Kindness Pillar

So many times in our society we hear “be kind”. But if we don’t actually move into the experience, we don’t have an understanding of how kindness feels, how our hearts react to it, and what the actual energy of kindness is.

…or preview this pillar

The Home Pillar

Home is your oasis. I want you to Imagine a beautiful sanctuary. Now why is it important to bring meaning, intention and purpose into this sanctuary? Because this is the energy you’re creating for where you live.

The Body Pillar

The body pillar is the mastery of your health. Imagine your body is your life’s car, allowing you to go from point a to point b. When it is mastered, and operating at its peak performance, we are able to dive into a wealthier existence.

…or preview this pillar

The Mind Pillar

One of the most special, unique pillars of our system. The way our mind thinks actually creates our reality. If we’re thinking positive thoughts all day, the energy we put out into the world will also be positive.

…or preview this pillar

The Kindness Pillar

So many times in our society we hear “be kind”. But if we don’t actually move into the experience, we don’t have an understanding of how kindness feels, how our hearts react to it, and what the actual energy of kindness is.

…or preview this pillar

The Responsibility Pillar

Responsibility is the core essence of who we are as humans. Teaching our children to be responsible individuals and have radical awareness for the life is the path to greatness

…or preview this pillar

The Courage Pillar

Be brave. Embolden yourself with personal power to forge ahead and step into those uncomfortable spaces.

…or preview this pillar

The Peacetime Pillar

Peacetime is all about social, emotional intelligence within yourself. Learn when you need to be still, reflect and recalibrate with tools to release your emotions.

…or preview this pillar

The Mother Earth Pillar

In our culture, we are not taught to connect with the planet. The earth we live in is connected to all of us. It electrifies us. We need the planet and the planet needs us.

…or preview this pillar

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