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Anger Issues

When explosive steam rolls around, life can feel catastrophic for everyone in the heat of anger. Children with frequent outbursts of anger have special needs and require a unique parenting approach. When parents genuinely implement the pillars of The Happy Life System, angry episodes naturally occur with less and less frequency and intensity.

When a strong connection between parent and child develops and emotional intelligence rises, the deeper feelings behind anger feel safe to emerge. Remember, the only way out is through. All kinds of emotions need to be felt (instead of acted on). From a space of deep listening and cultivated attunement to your child, breakthroughs in behavior happen often.

Should I Take An Anger Issues Test?

Explosive anger is the reactive band-aid for emotional dysregulation. There is the healthy expression of anger, and then there is the volatile expression, often referred to as rage. When children aren’t allowed to express natural anger, the result is rageful episodes.

While an anger issues test for children (you can find plenty online) may give you some new informative clarity, the next steps aren’t mapped out. As a parent, it’s up to you to determine what kind of support you would like for your family.

Dr. Gabor Mate, a leading trauma specialist, sheds light on anger issues being a matter of crossed boundaries. “When your body language and tone say more than your words,” that’s when someone has an anger problem. A child mirrors their parents’ emotional reactions in a myriad of ways. This is why taking a holistic approach to children’s anger issues involves the whole family.

The Good News of Anger Issues

Explosive outbursts are your child’s way of asserting themselves. While I don’t mean to condone rageaholic tendencies, the opposite reaction is bottling everything inside. Resentment brings on its own set of negative psychological factors. It’s said that the more aware and expressive we are of anger, the less it eats away at us. Not demonstrating anger but instead carrying resentment is like taking poison yet secretly hoping someone else will die.

You see, your child’s expression of anger signals that they are experiencing intense emotions that have built up. Luckily, there are healthy outlets for anger release that, as a family, you can explore together.

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Anger Symptoms Cover Up A Larger Problem

As a society, we are collectively healing and growing. We’ve learned that symptoms are the cover-up for a larger problem. What is the larger problem? Not being able to control intense emotions. Not knowing one’s boundaries or effectively communicating them.

When children haven’t been taught how to regulate and express their anger appropriately, their development and social functioning are negatively affected. This is why the education of the parent as a role model and guide is so important.

When parents learn to identify and change their own controlling (and sometimes shaming) behaviors, their children become more compliant and understanding. Dealing with your child’s anger issues holistically means uncovering deep-rooted patterns within yourself. This process has to be genuine for lasting behavioral change.

Your emotions and reactions to your child’s anger determine a lot. For instance, how long they remain in a state of fight-or-flight. Therefore, regulating your own emotions as a parent is crucial. The good news is you’re not alone, and proven methods to deal with anger issues now exist. And a lot of it has to do with recognizing where our boundary lies and effectively communicating it.

Emotional Dysregulation Treatment For Anger Issues

The Happy Life System is a game for life that teaches you how to take control of your emotions as a parent and child. We teach you how to calm your child’s nervous system and turn on the prefrontal cortex (logic) so the amygdala (emotions) stops taking full charge.

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Moms and dads have the hardest job on the planet. If you are feeling overworked and overwhelmed, know that parenting doesn’t have to be done alone. There are key hacks to fostering connections between families.

If you desire to have a system in place that gets rid of chaos and brings harmony to your family, The Happy Life System is for you. Building an amazing life together takes work, but it’s the kind of work that can feel magical for everyone.

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…or preview this pillar

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